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Joined: July 2003 Posts: 3111
Location: Nashville TN. | The staff at the nursing home where my mother is asked me to play there.
Any one ever do these and is there anything to know about playing the elderly in ill health?
My mother has liver cancer, days are very short. |
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Joined: November 2004 Posts: 4413
| Very sorry to hear about your mother.
Tim Chapman is the man. I'm sure he'll be posting real soon. |
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Joined: July 2007 Posts: 423
Location: UK | Pez , just go there and talk to the folks where she is and hear what they want / have to say and youll get the picture and know what to do , sorry about your mum but she will be so chuffed your there for her and where the music goes it goes |
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Joined: March 2002 Posts: 15654
Location: SoCal | Play anything. The people there will be thrilled that you made the effort.
Tim??? |
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Joined: March 2005 Posts: 12750
Location: Boise, Idaho | I'm with Paul. My niece was "entertainment director" at a nursing home for awhile. They appreciate anything, but it may be very difficult to get cooperation. I volunteered to play, but she never took me seriously and now has another job. |
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Joined: December 2004 Posts: 4394
Location: East Tennessee | Play what you love to play. The people will appreciate it.
A lot of older folks like the old hymns, Amazing Grace, In the Garden etc. Maybe some of the songs popular back t\in the late 40's or early 50's.
This time of year any of the Christmas standards will be good.
Sorry to hear about your Mom. |
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Joined: July 2003 Posts: 3111
Location: Nashville TN. | Thanks everyone
this is tuff thing to deal with. |
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Joined: March 2002 Posts: 14842
Location: NJ | I concur w/Schroed.
TimChapman is TheMan. |
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Joined: November 2007 Posts: 152
Location: Maple Shade, NJ. | I agree, play what you play best, The'll love it!
Just watch the volume. |
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Joined: February 2002 Posts: 1817
Location: Minden, Nebraska | I play guitar for a scaled down church service I conduct every month at the local Care Center. People do love to hear the music, and they will sing if they know the words. In my context, I use older familiar hymns. But any music they know will be especially loved. |
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Joined: October 2006 Posts: 5575
Location: big island | i bet they'll like the song, "my generation". :D |
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Joined: September 2006 Posts: 10777
Location: Keepin' It Weird in Portland, OR | Just something to think about... Those "Old Folks" ain't that much older than some of us.
I often work at a Senior Community, with people from 60's to 80's...
They are just like you and me... Just alittle pissed-off that this weird thing has happened to their body!
In their mind, "Not-too-long-ago I was cruising in my '57 Chevy, listening to that new music from England... And that Indian motorcycle sure was nice!"
Ask the folks what is some of their favorite music, you may be surprised.
Anything from Ernest Tubb or Hank Williams, to Steppenwolf. |
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Joined: July 2003 Posts: 3111
Location: Nashville TN. | I played Buck Owens, Johnny Cash stuff like that.
I guess I will be playing more in the future. |
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