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Location: Latitude 39.56819, Longitude -105.080066 | Lia (SWMBO) just returned Saturday night from visiting her Mom in Texas. They are best friends and spend 3-4 hours on the phone every Weds talking and laughing.
Today when she did not show up for church, Lia's brother called but could not reach her on the phone. He asked her neighbor to check on her. They found her on the bed barely breathing. She was rushed to the hospital and placed on life support but the prognosis is poor. They don't know how long she was in this condition but apparently it was for quite some time.
I tried to get Lia back on a plane to Houston tonight but by the time we heard the news (which was within an hour of her Mom being found around 6pm Denver time) there were no flights available.
I have Lia on a 6am flight out on Monday morning.
We just received a call from her younger sister letting us know that it looks like the end is very near. Lia is devastated.
The purpose of telling everyone this is because while I am not as religious as Lia and her family, I do strongly believe in God and the power of prayer.
I hope that many of our members can offer up a few prayers tonight in hopes that Lia's mom can hang on until Lia gets there tomorrow morning. It would take a tremendous burden off of Lia to be able to hold her Mom and say goodbye. She feels terribly guilty that she left even though her Mom seemed fine.
Anyway, thoughts and prayers would be most appreciated in Lia's time of pain and mental anguish and maybe the power of prayer can buy a little bit of time.
Thanks. |
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Location: the BIG Metropolis of TR | My prayers have been sent..... |
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Location: Florida Central Gulf Coast | One just sent and more on the way! |
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Location: Michigan | prayer sent.GWB |
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Location: big island | thank you stephen for granting us the opportunity to support your family in prayer. |
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Location: Copenhagen Denmark | Hoping for the best ..and ofcourse
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Location: Brisbane Australia | Prayers and best wishes from all Downunder
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Location: Blue Ridge Mountains | Stephen, you, Lia, and the family are in ours...Blessings friends... |
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Location: Nashville TN. | My thoughts and prayers were with you. |
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Location: Vernon CT | In my thoughts!!! |
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Location: South of most, North of few | We're praying for you and your family Stephen. |
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| Prayers sent to you and your family.
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Location: Cicero, NY | We're thinking the best for you as well, T. |
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Location: East Tennessee | Prayers on the the way. |
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Location: Marlton, NJ | Done Stephen. |
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| Sorry to hear, best wishes to Lia, her mom, her family and you. |
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Location: Boise, Idaho | + another. Faith will be a big help in times like these. |
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Location: Hot Springs, S.D. | Just sent one up from Hot Springs and will continue throughout the day. |
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Location: WNC-God's Country | Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family... |
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Location: Reisterstown, Maryland | Prayers up!
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Location: Budd Lake, NJ | Prayers from here in Jersey, too.
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Location: Steeler Nation, Hudson Valley Contingent | And more from the Hudson Valley. |
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Location: Simpsonville, SC | Prayers on the way...our thoughts will be with Lia and her family. |
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Location: Capital District, NY, USA Minor Outlying Islands | I just went thru this with my Uncle. Stay strong. |
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Location: Florida Central Gulf Coast | Stephen,
Just wondering how Lia's Mom is doing. Patty and I still got ya'll on our 'List'!
Here's hoping for the best... |
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Location: Latitude 39.56819, Longitude -105.080066 | Lia'a mom passed away during the night before she could get there. Sorry...thought I had updated this.
Lia has been there since and is finally coming back home today. She handled it all very well but is afraid that once she gets back home the reality of it all will really hit her hard. At least I can try and give her the support and love she will need.
Thanks to everyone! I am sure that the prayers and thoughts ultimately made their way to Lia and helped her to find comfort during a difficult time. |
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Location: Cicero, NY | I'm very sorry for you family's loss, Stephen. Please pass on the condolences of all the OFC members. |
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Location: Vernon CT | My sincere condolences to you, Lia and the rest of your family. |
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Location: big island | my heartfelt sympathies, stephen. |
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Location: Florida Central Gulf Coast | Our hearts are heavy with sorrow. Give Lia a loving hug from us. |
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Location: Blue Ridge Mountains | Stephen and Lia I am so sorry to hear this. Violetta and I have both been there and know how hard this is. Our hearts and prayers go out to and for you both. |
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Location: Tennessee | Stephen,
Kim and I are keeping both you and Lia in our thoughts and prayers. So sorry for your family. The circle of life goes on so there is joy just around the corner for you. ALl the best. |
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| Stephen, you and Lia have out deepest condolences. Even though she wasn't able to get there in time to say her last goodbye, she had by your accounts just spent a wonderful day with her mom. That counts for more than anything, and she should cherish that memory. I'm certain her mother was very proud of the extraordinary person her daughter is. |
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Location: South of most, North of few | Stephen, Bonnie and I just went through the same issue with her mom. She was found by a neighbor barely alive after suffering a stroke and passed a few days after. Please accept our sincere condolences for your loss. I pray that Lia and your family can find peace after the shock of the death of a loved one. |
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Location: Utah | Stephen, deepest sympathies from us to you and your family. |
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Location: Hot Springs, S.D. | Stephen and Lia, my heart goes out to you. No matter how "prepared" you are, it is so difficult to lose our parents. To have it happen unexpectedly makes it even harder. Your family will continue to be in my prayers. |
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Location: Marlton, NJ | Stephen and Lia - I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
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Location: Steeler Nation, Hudson Valley Contingent | My deepest condolences to you and Lia. More prayers have been sent. |
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Location: Boise, Idaho | Give Lia my condolences, Stephen. |
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| Steven, I am sorry to hear about this. You and your family are in my prayers.
Michelle |
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Location: Capital District, NY, USA Minor Outlying Islands | You are not alone. Peace. |
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