Lost my wife.
ksdaddy
Posted 2011-01-14 2:34 PM (#357544)
Subject: Lost my wife.


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Just wanted to update all of you. I lost my wife last week.

http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/bangordailynews/obituary.aspx?n=ta...

If you've never gone through it, think about what it might be like. Think about everything you do in the course of a day and how it would change if you lost her.

It's worse. It's worse than you can imagine.
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roundsound
Posted 2011-01-14 2:42 PM (#357545 - in reply to #357544)
Subject: Re: Lost my wife.


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I am so very sorry for your loss. I will take to heart what you have kindly shared, and consider all the people in my life with a renewed appreciation.
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moody, p.i.
Posted 2011-01-14 2:46 PM (#357546 - in reply to #357544)
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I am sorry.....
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Nick B.
Posted 2011-01-14 3:02 PM (#357547 - in reply to #357544)
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Oh dear Lord. I just can't imagine...don't want to try. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your Daughters.
Nick
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bburg
Posted 2011-01-14 3:08 PM (#357548 - in reply to #357544)
Subject: Re: Lost my wife.



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Oh Scott, sorry to hear that


Bernie
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Miguel - BR
Posted 2011-01-14 3:18 PM (#357549 - in reply to #357544)
Subject: Re: Lost my wife.


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I will get some flowers. Be assured you are not alone.
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MusicMishka
Posted 2011-01-14 3:19 PM (#357550 - in reply to #357544)
Subject: Re: Lost my wife.


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Scott, I am so very sorry for your loss...I pray for comfort and peace for you and yours...
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Auriemma
Posted 2011-01-14 3:20 PM (#357551 - in reply to #357544)
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My deepest condolenses to you and your family. Our thoughts are with you.
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CanterburyStrings
Posted 2011-01-14 3:25 PM (#357552 - in reply to #357544)
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I am so sorry. I will give some flowers to a friend in her honor.
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AstroDan
Posted 2011-01-14 3:30 PM (#357553 - in reply to #357544)
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Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
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marenostrum
Posted 2011-01-14 3:34 PM (#357554 - in reply to #357544)
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My condolences to you and your family.
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AlanM
Posted 2011-01-14 3:43 PM (#357555 - in reply to #357544)
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I'm so sorry for your loss! Best wishes, thoughts and prayers for you and your daughters.
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Watchme22
Posted 2011-01-14 3:46 PM (#357556 - in reply to #357544)
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Please accept my most sincere condolences. My heart and preyers go out to you and your family.
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schroeder
Posted 2011-01-14 3:54 PM (#357557 - in reply to #357544)
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My condolences.
Be strong for those that remain.
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Slipkid
Posted 2011-01-14 3:59 PM (#357558 - in reply to #357544)
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You're right... I cannot even imagine such a loss.
My condolences.
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AussieJames
Posted 2011-01-14 4:06 PM (#357559 - in reply to #357544)
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Best Wishes Scott to you and your family from all Downunder

AJ
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nikon4004
Posted 2011-01-14 4:18 PM (#357560 - in reply to #357544)
Subject: Re: Lost my wife.


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Scott:

You are your family are in our thoughts and prayers....

Steve
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Weaser P
Posted 2011-01-14 4:18 PM (#357561 - in reply to #357544)
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Condolences for your loss, Scott.
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FlySig
Posted 2011-01-14 4:54 PM (#357562 - in reply to #357544)
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Scott, I am sorry for your loss.
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Mark in Boise
Posted 2011-01-14 5:01 PM (#357563 - in reply to #357544)
Subject: Re: Lost my wife.


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So sorry. It is especially sad that she was so young. We also have two daughters and I couldn't imagine SWMBO going first. Stay close to them and take care of each other.
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Carol
Posted 2011-01-14 5:03 PM (#357564 - in reply to #357544)
Subject: Re: Lost my wife.


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You had said it would be soon, Scott. I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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alan814
Posted 2011-01-14 5:31 PM (#357565 - in reply to #357544)
Subject: Re: Lost my wife.


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Scott, I'm so sorry for your loss. I do know what you are going thru---I lost my wife two years ago this month. Time does truly heal, but you will forever hold her in your heart.
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Old Man Arthur
Posted 2011-01-14 5:39 PM (#357566 - in reply to #357544)
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Wow Scott... So Sorry for you Loss.

Hate to repeat what everyone else sez...
But I am at a loss for words.
Be Strong, Bro'
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Patch
Posted 2011-01-14 5:39 PM (#357567 - in reply to #357544)
Subject: Re: Lost my wife.



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I am truly sorry for your loss Scott. You and your family will be remembered in my prayers.
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Jonmark Stone
Posted 2011-01-14 5:58 PM (#357568 - in reply to #357544)
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Very sad news, Scott. So sorry.
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Michael R. Winters
Posted 2011-01-14 6:42 PM (#357569 - in reply to #357544)
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You and your family will be in our prayers.
Our sincerest condolences.
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slothead
Posted 2011-01-14 6:48 PM (#357570 - in reply to #357544)
Subject: Re: Lost my wife.


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non of us can imagine what your going through at the moment i hope time can make you come to terms with your great loss and god look after you and your family and give you inner strenghth to go on.
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MolonLabe
Posted 2011-01-14 7:22 PM (#357571 - in reply to #357544)
Subject: Re: Lost my wife.
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Dear Scott,

My heart aches for you and yours! May the memories and Tammie's love carry you through this most difficult of times.

As I tear for you and your family, I also pray that you may find some comfort in knowing that so many of us are with you!

With love and heavy hearts,

Iffy & Patty
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Designzilla
Posted 2011-01-14 8:22 PM (#357572 - in reply to #357544)
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Words can't express my sorrow for you. We will keep you and your family in our prayers. I can't begin to imagine what you must be feeling.
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GaryB
Posted 2011-01-14 8:26 PM (#357573 - in reply to #357544)
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what that would be like.
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cholloway
Posted 2011-01-14 9:30 PM (#357574 - in reply to #357544)
Subject: Re: Lost my wife.


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My condolences.
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Rooster
Posted 2011-01-14 10:06 PM (#357575 - in reply to #357544)
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prayers sent
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Todd G.
Posted 2011-01-14 10:07 PM (#357576 - in reply to #357544)
Subject: Re: Lost my wife.


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My deepest condolences to you and your family during this diffucult time.
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Guitarzannie
Posted 2011-01-14 11:39 PM (#357577 - in reply to #357544)
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Scott, my condolences and my prayers are with your family. She was so young.

Michelle
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Jewel's Mom a/k/a Joisey Goil #1
Posted 2011-01-14 11:40 PM (#357578 - in reply to #357544)
Subject: Re: Lost my wife.


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So, so saddened by the news; you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
(Check your PMs, too.)

--Karen
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seesquare
Posted 2011-01-14 11:52 PM (#357579 - in reply to #357544)
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Thought crosses my mind occasionally. It would be life-changing, certainly. I do a lot of grief counseling. Stay close to folks, and stay busy. Accept whatever people offer, too. Makes them feel better.
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kitmann
Posted 2011-01-14 11:55 PM (#357580 - in reply to #357544)
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Karen's and I will add you and your family in this time of loss to our prayers. God bless.
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CrimsonLake
Posted 2011-01-15 12:34 AM (#357581 - in reply to #357544)
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Scott - our deepest condolences to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
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Avatar4550
Posted 2011-01-15 12:54 AM (#357582 - in reply to #357544)
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Absolutely the saddest news anyone could share...

My deepest condolences to you and your family in this time of loss.
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6L6
Posted 2011-01-15 1:15 AM (#357583 - in reply to #357544)
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My sincerest condolences for your loss.

6
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WillaMuse
Posted 2011-01-15 1:30 AM (#357584 - in reply to #357544)
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Scott, so sorry for your loss.

Willa
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hwebster
Posted 2011-01-15 11:37 AM (#357585 - in reply to #357544)
Subject: Re: Lost my wife.


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I am sorry
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bvince
Posted 2011-01-15 1:58 PM (#357586 - in reply to #357544)
Subject: Re: Lost my wife.



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I am so sorry Scott. Our prayers will be with you in these difficult days ahead. May God bless you with many good memories to restore your heart.

Bryan
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Arnaud
Posted 2011-01-15 5:57 PM (#357587 - in reply to #357544)
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Scott receive my sincere and deepest condolences. Hope the thoughts and prayers of all the Ovation family throughout the world will help you in these difficult circumstances.
Arnaud
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tremor
Posted 2011-01-15 5:59 PM (#357588 - in reply to #357544)
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So sad. I could not imagine losing my wife/best friend. Prayers heading to you in this difficult time.
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Fridave
Posted 2011-01-15 6:17 PM (#357589 - in reply to #357544)
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Thoughts and prayers.
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sligoman
Posted 2011-01-16 12:26 AM (#357590 - in reply to #357544)
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I can't even imagine. So young.
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stonebobbo
Posted 2011-01-16 3:09 AM (#357591 - in reply to #357544)
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Sad news indeed. I wish you peace and strength.
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BT717
Posted 2011-01-16 6:21 AM (#357592 - in reply to #357544)
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Scott,
I'm so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and yours...........
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Gallerinski
Posted 2011-01-16 11:01 AM (#357593 - in reply to #357544)
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I can not even imagine the sorrow iff I was in your spot.

My thoughts are with you and your family.
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Beal
Posted 2011-01-16 1:19 PM (#357594 - in reply to #357544)
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About time you poked your head out Iffy, It was almost getting to the point of taking betts on how much longer you'd keep this motion lable thing going, or was that Lotion Mable?
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standing
Posted 2011-01-16 1:44 PM (#357595 - in reply to #357544)
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Scott,

It is so hard to find the right words… perhaps there are no right words…

It just seems so sad and wrong and untimely and unfair…

Hopefully you will at least find some small comfort in the fact that so many of us are thinking of you and desperately searching for those elusive words of support and sympathy…

-standing-
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Jérôme
Posted 2011-01-16 3:40 PM (#357596 - in reply to #357544)
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Scott,

I am sincerely sorry and sad.
My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Jérôme
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TAFKAR
Posted 2011-01-16 5:47 PM (#357597 - in reply to #357544)
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Scott, that's awful. So young, too young for that. +1 on Standing's comments.
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PEZ
Posted 2011-01-16 9:31 PM (#357598 - in reply to #357544)
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You and your family will be in my prayer.
I sorry to hear of your lose
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wilblee
Posted 2011-01-17 5:33 PM (#357599 - in reply to #357544)
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No words. No words at all. Just the cries that only God can understand.

and prayers for peace for you and your family
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rick endres
Posted 2011-01-30 10:53 PM (#357600 - in reply to #357544)
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As mentioned above, words don't work at a time like this. Nothing anyone can say will make a difference, except that you know they care. My condolences...
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Englishplayer
Posted 2011-01-31 9:11 AM (#357601 - in reply to #357544)
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So sorry to hear this news. My best wishes to you.
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